General Nutrition

What questions should I ask a nutritionist?

December 16, 2025

Written by Maeve Ginsberg

Medically reviewed by Rita Faycurry, RD

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Key Points

  • Come prepared to share your health goals, eating habits, and medical history at your first appointment.
  • A good RD will make you feel supported and empowered – never judged.
  • You can ask questions at any point in your journey, from choosing the right dietitian to navigating everyday challenges.
  • Many insurance plans cover nutrition counseling, making professional support more accessible than you think.

Walking into your first dietitian appointment can feel intimidating. You might worry about being judged for your eating habits or not knowing the "right" answers.

But remember: there are no wrong questions. Your dietitian is there to help you, not test you.

This guide covers what questions to ask when choosing a dietitian, what to expect at your first meeting, and what to ask as you work together. Whether you're preparing for your first appointment or you've been working with an RD for months, these questions will help you get the most from nutrition counseling.

What do I need to know before meeting a nutritionist?

Your first meeting with a dietitian might be a consultation or a formal intake. Either way, you'll discuss your current eating habits, lifestyle, and health concerns.

Be ready to share your symptoms, supplements, medical history, and activity level. This helps your dietitian create the best plan for you.

The more honest you are, the better your dietitian can support you. They've heard it all – no need to sugarcoat or feel embarrassed about your current habits.

💡 Tip: Write down your top 3 health goals before your first appointment so you don't forget them if you're nervous.

What are the basic nutrition questions for your first meeting with a dietitian?

When you first meet with a registered dietitian, it's not just about them getting to know you. It's also about you seeing if it's a good fit.

Working with an RD can be intimate as you share your struggles and fears. It's important to have a good match. Research shows that the therapeutic relationship between patient and dietitian significantly impacts outcomes.

Here are some questions you can ask a dietitian in your first meeting:

  • What kind of people do you work with?
  • Do you have experience with XYZ? (You can ask about specific concerns, like eating disorders, high cholesterol, food intolerances, certain diagnoses or medical conditions, and more.)
  • What's your nutrition philosophy? (Some dietitians focus on weight loss, while others use a weight-neutral approach or Health at Every Size)
  • What changes should I expect to make as we work together?
  • What if I mess up? (Maybe you ate a whole pizza on Friday night, or you skipped tracking for three days straight – your RD won't judge.)
  • What tips do you have for meeting my goal?
  • How do I balance eating out and achieving my goals?
  • I don't eat these types of foods, is that ok?
  • Are there any foods that might interact with my medication?
  • I can't cook, how can I be healthy?
  • Do I need to go on a diet? (Keto, paleo, FODMAP, etc.)

It's completely normal to feel nervous about asking questions. But remember – your dietitian is there to help you, not test you.

You should leave feeling like all your questions have been answered and that the provider is a good fit for your needs. A good dietitian will make you feel supported and empowered to take control of your health and wellness. You should never feel a sense of judgment or a lack of support from a dietitian.

💡 Tip: If something doesn't feel right in your first meeting, it's okay to try a different dietitian. The right match makes all the difference.

What questions should you ask a nutritionist?

As you begin working with your RD or RDN, you'll have plenty of questions along the way as you navigate healthy eating. Here's a list of questions you can ask.

If you're struggling with cravings or consistency, you're not alone. These are some of the most common challenges people face.

What is the best way to keep track of what I'm eating?

If you've never tracked your food before and now need to, your dietitian can help you find a system that works for you. You might need to keep tabs on carbohydrates or ensure you're getting the right nutrients daily.

That said, tracking isn't required for everyone. If it doesn't work for you, your RD will find another solution. Some research suggests that food tracking can be helpful for some people but triggering for others, especially those with a history of disordered eating.

💡 Tip: Ask your RD about different tracking methods – apps, photos, or simple check-ins – to find what feels manageable for your lifestyle.

What are good and bad foods?

Most dietitians hesitate to call any food "good" or "bad" because restriction is usually more harmful than helpful. Some foods are more nutritious than others, and moderation is always going to be the best approach.

Your dietitian will focus on the best foods for you and your health goals. An individualized method always makes for the most optimal outcomes. Research supports personalized nutrition approaches over one-size-fits-all diets.

How can I drink more water?

There's been a huge push on hydration in recent years, and it's true that it's critical for overall health and wellbeing. That said, proper hydration is different for everyone.

Your dietitian will recommend a personalized daily water goal based on your health status, activity levels, and more. They might also suggest alternatives if plain water isn't appealing to you.

How do I pick the right foods at the grocery store?

Does grocery shopping leave you feeling lost and frustrated? Do you space out while shopping and get home with no idea what to do with the food you bought?

Your RD can help you create a realistic shopping list so that you feel empowered to make good choices. They'll teach you how to read labels, identify healthy options, and stick to your budget.

💡 Tip: Take a photo of your shopping list each week to track what you're actually buying versus planning. This helps identify patterns and adjust.

How much protein should I be eating?

Protein seems to be a primary focus of nutrition these days – but how do you know how much you need? Everyone's protein needs vary based on body type, activity levels, and other personal factors.

Your dietitian will look at your current eating patterns and help you figure out how much protein you should be eating. They might also give you easy ways to boost protein without overthinking it.

What should my macros be?

Whether you want to lose or gain weight, or if you want to improve your athletic performance, you might be concerned about your macronutrient breakdown. Your provider can help determine the right amount of healthy fats, carbs, and protein for your lifestyle and goals.

Cookie-cutter macro calculators don't account for your unique needs. Your RD will personalize your targets based on your specific situation.

How can I eat more veggies?

Do you struggle with certain food groups? Many people know they should eat more vegetables but aren't sure how to incorporate them.

As you work with an RD, they can help you figure out what veggies you most enjoy and how to realistically incorporate them into your diet. Your RD might suggest adding spinach to your morning eggs, keeping baby carrots in your car, or blending cauliflower into your pasta sauce.

💡 Tip: Start small – even one extra serving of vegetables per day makes a difference. Your RD can help you build from there.

Do I need to eat breakfast?

Everyone has their own eating habits and preferences. There's not one singular right way to eat.

Your provider can help you find the right eating schedule for your lifestyle that supports consistent energy and satiety. Some people thrive with breakfast, while others prefer a later first meal.

How can you help me recover from an eating disorder?

ED recovery is a complicated topic – but RDs are well-equipped to handle it. Registered dietitians are trained to support recovery through proven methods.

Not only will a dietitian give you tools for recovery, but they'll also give you the support that everyone needs as they take on this difficult but important journey. Your RD will work collaboratively with your therapist and medical team for comprehensive care.

Do I need to cut out any foods?

You might have a new diagnosis and you're not sure if or how you need to adjust your diet. Nutrition counseling with a dietitian is the perfect way to know if your diagnosis means you have to cut out certain foods or monitor certain nutrient levels.

Your provider will be well-educated on the best foods for particular health conditions and will provide the nutrition tips you need to be well and improve symptoms. They'll also help you understand what's truly necessary versus what's optional.

How can I control my cravings?

Do you struggle with cravings? Maybe you experience intense urges for specific foods, or you find yourself eating when you're not physically hungry.

Your RD will help you understand your hunger and fullness cues so that you can develop more sustainable eating patterns. They'll also help you distinguish between physical hunger, emotional eating, and true cravings.

What are some meal ideas for breakfast / a quick meal / a snack?

Knowing what to make for a meal when you're short on time can make or break a healthy lifestyle. It's all too convenient to grab something less nutritious simply because it's easier.

An RD can give you a list of recipes for all meals and snacks so that you're always prepared when it's mealtime. They'll tailor suggestions to your taste preferences, cooking skills, and schedule.

💡 Tip: Ask your RD to create a "favorites list" of 5-7 go-to meals you can rotate when you're too tired to think.

Should I try XYZ diet?

There are so many fad diets out there now: keto, paleo, Mediterranean dietintermittent fasting, and more. If you're considering one of them, it's best to consult a healthcare professional like a dietitian.

Your RD can help you evaluate whether a specific eating pattern is a good fit for your goals and lifestyle. They'll also help you understand the potential benefits and risks.

What do you talk to a nutritionist about?

When you work with an RD or RDN, you can expect to meet with them weekly or biweekly to discuss your progress. Regular sessions have been shown to improve outcomes; consistency is key!

Working with a dietitian is much more than a meal plan. In these meetings, you'll go over the past week: what you ate, what went well, what was challenging, and what questions you might have about your plan.

Your RD will want to know about your current sleep, stress levels, physical activity, and anything else that's relevant to your health goals. All of these factors affect your nutrition and overall wellbeing.

If you've met with another provider, you may have updates to share. If you found yourself in a difficult situation, you might ask for advice – like how to order at a restaurant, read a food label, or deal with difficult thoughts when recovering from an eating disorder.

Dietitians aren't just nutrition experts; they're trained to give you all the support you need as you work towards your goals. Whatever wins or concerns you have, they want to hear it all!

The more honest and direct you are with your provider, the more they can give you the exact support and information you need to be your healthiest self. RDs have specialized training in medical nutrition therapy and behavior change – skills that generic nutrition advice can't provide.

Final Thoughts

Asking questions is a sign of engagement, not ignorance. The best outcomes happen when you're an active participant in your nutrition journey.

Remember that working with an RD is a collaborative partnership. They bring expertise, but you bring knowledge about your own life, preferences, and challenges.

Many insurance plans cover nutrition counseling at little to no cost, making working with an RD more accessible than you might think. This professional support can make the difference between another failed attempt and sustainable change.

Find an expert dietitian covered by your insurance today with Fay.

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I tell my nutritionist at my first appointment?

Share your health goals, current eating habits, medical history, medications, and any symptoms you're experiencing. Be honest about your challenges – whether that's time constraints, food preferences, or past struggles with dieting.

Your dietitian needs the full picture to create a plan that works for you. Don't worry about sounding "perfect" – they've heard it all.

How often should I meet with a nutritionist?

Most people meet with their RD weekly at first, then transition to biweekly or monthly check-ins as they build confidence. Your dietitian will recommend a schedule based on your needs and goals.

Consistency matters more than frequency. Even monthly check-ins can be effective if you're implementing changes between sessions.

What if I can't afford to see a nutritionist regularly?

Many insurance plans cover nutrition counseling for specific diagnoses like diabetes, obesity, or eating disorders. Check with your insurance provider to understand your benefits.

Some RDs also offer package deals, sliding scale fees, or group programs that make nutrition support more affordable. Don't assume you can't afford it without asking.

How to find a trusted dietitian

Fay Nutrition has a network of highly qualified and vetted registered dietitians where you can be matched with a provider who specializes in your area of concern and is covered by your insurance. Fay bills your insurance after your session so you don't have to worry.

It's an easy, trusted way to get nutrition counseling.

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Maeve Ginsberg

Written by Maeve Ginsberg

Maeve Ginsberg is a health and wellness writer with a personal passion for fitness. As an ACE Certified Personal Trainer and former powerlifter, she loves combining her interests in health with her writing. Maeve has a Bachelor’s degree from Northwestern University. 

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Rita Faycurry, RD

Medically reviewed by Rita Faycurry, RD

Rita Faycurry, RD is a board-certified Registered Dietitian Nutritionist specializing in clinical nutrition for chronic conditions. Her approach to health is centered around the idea that the mind and body are intimately connected, and that true healing requires an evidence-based and integrative approach that addresses the root cause of disease. In her books and articles, Rita offers practical tips and insights on how to care for your body, mind, and spirit to achieve optimal health and wellness.

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